People who find it erotic to be tied up find it so for a variety of reasons

The most frequently cited reason is a mental freedom from inhibitions and responsibility since they have, in a way, given up control of the sexual situation to follow. This is sometimes referred to as a “power exchange.”

Some like the tactile feeling of restraint, that is, the feeling of pressure or pulling. Some enjoy the feeling of helplessness for its own sake.

Some like to struggle aggressively against their bonds, particularly when being sexually or otherwise stimulated.

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Barry here should probably be classifed as a “Superhunk.” How else to explain the superhero-style blue satin undies? In these pics he reaches in, gropes around and, with superhuman strength, wrestles his impressive trouser snake into view. We like the tatt, too. All the photos can be found at For The Girls.

1. Sex could be the ultimate de-stresser
New research shows that, “Penetrative sex is associated with better psychological functions,” according to psychologist Dr Stuart Brody. In one study,”Men and women who had intercourse had a better stress response,” says Dr Brody, who accounted for dozens of variables, including how satisfied the subjects were in their relationships.

Guess that athlete ritual of abstinence before a big game is hogwash. (Could this be the answer for SA’s sporting heroes?) But before you hop into the sack to prepare for a big meeting, know this: least-stressed subjects had penetrative sex and abstained from other sexual activity, including masturbation and oral sex. There’s always a catch, isn’t there?

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